Couples Counseling In North Richland Hills (Taylor’s Version)

Dear Reader,

Have you ever looked at each other and thought any of the following?

 “Everything Has Changed”

 “It just doesn’t feel the same anymore, remember when we used to feel Sparks Fly”

“I feel lonely even though we’re in the same room, and before it was You All Over Me” 

“We can’t talk to each other without an argument starting. Long Live the good ole’ days”

“I was willing to marry him with Paper Rings. I want to get back to what it was like when we were Fifteen” 

“Our Song just doesn’t impress me the way it used it”

“It feels like we’re roommates instead of partners. Before, I could see her Dress on the floor and instantly want her.” 

“It’s over. That was the Moment I knew” 

Then Don’t You worry. You are in the right place.

Couples counseling is a specific form of relationship counseling, focused on the intimate romantic connection between two adult individuals. When beginning a romantic relationship after you have found The 1, the Lavender Haze covers our experience with so much novelty, excitement and passion, many of us often believe that we are living the greatest Love Story of all time. But growing divorce rates suggest Bad Blood is brewing. If you are experiencing  The Great War in your relationship, and are looking for a safe place to land, you have come to the right place.

At Luxx Therapy in North Richland Hills, we believe that relationships have the potential to Change your life in meaningful ways. Many people find their value and identity in the context of their relationship, and thus, when we experience a Glitch and feel rocky or uneasy, our therapists know that one’s emotional wellbeing can be a Delicate thing. Our relationship therapists understand that within the context of safe relationships, individuals are transformed into Fearless, developed, and fulfilled versions of themselves.

We believe that human relationships are foundational to our existence and survival and we understand that the threat to those relationships can feel like Exile. Navigating life’s challenges with your Lover by your side, weathering whatever comes, and having someone that just gets you can help make the Treacherous times easier, and the Bejewled times better. Relationships are not fixed objects, and need to grow and change as you develop individually and together through life. With intentional adjustments, course corrections, and efforts to keep your relationship strong, it can remain an essential part of the bedrock of your life. Sometimes though, we’re not sure about how to make those adjustments, or what adjustments to even make. As much as we might want that stability, we might not have had great examples of what a loving, connected relationship might look like. When things feel Treacherous and you feel like you just can’t Shake It Off, call us, because Soon You’ll Get Better. This Valentine’s Day, it may be helpful to work with a therapist to identify how you Should’ve Said No to the example you learned from The Man and the Mad Woman you grew up with. Identifying these unhelpful examples of what relationships are like will allow you to more intentionally create the meaningful relationship you want.

If your relationship is experiencing Illicit Affairs, High Infidelity, or if you Did Something Bad, we can help you escape your Haunted past. We know how to help clients develop their own meaningful Epiphany. When clients say “Me!” or “Mine” our Mastermind therapists are equipped to help you take a hard look in the Mirrorball to examine whether you truly are Untouchable, riding on the White Horse, or if You’re Not Sorry and you need to reflect upon your Would’ve, Could’ve Should’ve. When You Need to Clam Down, our therapists are helpful in speaking hard truths, and delivering necessary feedback to help your relationship become Timeless.

Couple’s counselors treat the relationship as the client, not just the members individually. There is no Anti-Hero or Better Man, each individual is tied together by an Invisible String. By focusing on the relationship as a whole, we can begin to identify barriers to authentic connection, or how underlying issues might be contributing to concerns with conflict or disconnection. Instead of being a Cowboy like Me, by working with a couple’s counselor, it allows for a deeper perspective that can come from the dynamics you struggle with in the relationship happening in the therapy room. Through this process, you get more effective information for you to change how you are living out your relationship Death by a Thousand Cuts. Whether it’s feeling disconnected sexually, struggling with the consequences of Karma, or dealing with Mr. Perfectly Fine, trying to change it with just one member of the relationship would be like Dancin’ With Your Hands Tied. Working with both you and your partner allows for both of you to work together against your concerns for a more Enchanted relationship, one that will last Evermore. 

Long Story Short, embrace love this Valentine’s Day by working with your counselor, your relationship can change by getting Out of the Woods to becoming your Labyrinth where you can go to feel recharged and reconnected, as if you are on Holy Ground. If you’ve watched all the YouTube videos, listened to all the podcasts, read all the books, or even if you haven’t done any of that, maybe it’s time to work with a counselor. Are you … Ready for it?